"Christian listening is an act which communicates to another, "Right now, I am here for you. No one else, just for you. I want to hear and understand what you have to say....I'm all yours." Listening is allowing the other person to set the agenda for the conversation, seeking to clarify his point of view. Ultimately, listening is helping a person to understand himself better." (Speaking from the Heart, Ken Durham).
Listening, is one of the most powerful tools available for building good relationships with friends and loved ones. Most people think communication means doing a lot of talking, but in truth, I think real communication begins when you start listening to the other person.
Personally, I find myself having to review the Book of James where he says, "Be QUICK to listen and SLOW TO SPEAK."
Returning Intention to Attention,
Virgene
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